There is a sad trend of treating surface aspects as if they were deeply important. Consider how race and group membership are emphasized while the character is often overlooked. In these cases, it would be helpful to discuss things that truly are important. Here are seven important aspects:
- You are what you do– day-to-day, week, year, or now.
- You are what you believe, and why- as a system, and its foundations.
- You are what you seek (and avoid)- your means and yours ends
- You are what you prioritize– how your hierarchy of ends fit together, and what they are.
- You are what you think about– what and how and why.
- You are what you love – who, what, and why.
- You are what you enjoy- recreation, dreams, triumphs.
In some ways, all of these dimensions are some form of activity, which reveals who we are–who we decide to be. There are more dimensions worth our consideration. It cannot be overemphasized that these dimensions do not require wealth, education, or social recognition.